Ask A Guy – Ben
1. Do you like it when girls have tons of friends?
I don’t really care about how many friends they have total—but I do like it when they have a core group of just a few friends who she can be herself around and who she cares about. That’s super awesome to see.
2. How much makeup should a girl wear?
Whatever floats your boat I guess… but I would say that it’s better to be wearing “too little” makeup than too much… too much is kinda gross. I am A-OK with a girl who wears no makeup.
3. What hair color are you most attracted to?
Any natural hair color is super nice!
4. What do you think about guys and girls praying together?
I think it’s great! Although praying together will build a certain level of intimacy which you might want to be careful about developing with someone, especially someone who might have a crush on you or you might have a crush on… you may find yourself attached to the person sooner than you’d like to! So be careful about 1 on 1 prayer times with other guys.
5. Do you ever think about getting married?
I do! Marriage is an exciting topic, especially as you get older and see your friends start getting married. Often I take those times to pray about my future marriage, asking God to prepare me now for a life with someone later.
6. When you face disappointments what do you do?
I definitely know that turning to God is the quickest and best way to heal, so that’s what I do. God is so faithful and able to walk you through even the crappiest times: rejections, breakups, et cetera.
7. Who do you trust most in your life?
Well, God is definitely the one who has proved Himself to be most trustworthy! My friends on my floor here at school are definitely people I trust to pray with me and keep me accountable for things.
8. Do you prefer girls who are outgoing or more reserved?
I find myself more attracted to girls who are more reserved, if they are confident in who they are. But there is definitely something to be said about a girl who uses her out-going-ness to show she cares about others.
9. How “real” are you with your friends? Do you feel like you can be yourself?
Being real can be super hard, especially in places like high school where there’s so much drama… but it definitely shows amazing character for someone to be themselves and not care about what people think about them… Remember who you are in Christ!
10. How long would u date someone before proposing?
At least a year– I’d rather date someone for a long time and be engaged for a few months than to have a long engagement.